How To Be Insensitive To Criticism
Recall the times when you were overthinking about someone else saying low things about you. I suppose some of you must have gotten really sensitive to it and began to doubt and question yourself, right? If not, I'm proud of you. If yes, don't worry about it, we'll solve your issues in this blog post.
To be honest, when people criticize me, I always do this:
- Ask the person to teach me how to do it/how to behave if I am really wrong.
- If they can't do that, IGNORE.
- If they teach me, or if I realize myself that it's actually a mistake and they are not just trying to degrade me, I learn.
- If they are actually trying to degrade me, bye bye, I don't care.
Sometimes you might see how another person is good at something, and you aren't. There is this saying,
You cannot judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree.
The same way, if you take a pigeon and judge it by its ability to swim, you will think of it as useless. Just like how you use a pen to write and an eraser to erase. If you use a pen to erase and an eraser to write, of course it sounds like a bad idea.
If a person is good at singing but bad at dancing, they might feel low in front of a professional dancer. That doesn't mean they can't learn how to dance! If they want to, they can. Everything happens with practice and consistency. I'm sure Bill Gates never became the founder of Microsoft overnight, right?
So, a final summary of what you need to learn:
People have two motives when it comes to criticism.
- To make you feel low: You need to ignore this.
- To correct you: You mustn't take it too personally, just correct yourself.
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Excellent!! Most of the times Judgement is based on their point of view.. not on facts
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